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The Eroticization of Suffering

The Eroticization of Suffering

By RedSabbath Quite often models ask me how do I deal with pain. First of all, let me remind that good semenawa favors the experimentation of suffering, not pain. I’m not a masochist. Never been. Outside a session in which I feel submitted, I hardly can manage painful stimuli. So what are the tools, the techniques, I personally use to deal with the painful sensations, with progressive suffering, and to turn them into something I can space for? 1. Breathing I breathe slow and deep, when possible, slow and extended, when my breathing capacity is limited from the tie. Breathing has an immediate...

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